David’s grief over Absalom’s death demoralized and scattered his people, who had fought for him and should have been rejoicing in their victory. So, Joab openly rebuked the king. David humbly accepted Joab’s rebuke—he went to the city gate to encourage his people. He overcame grief and his aversion to Joab to listen and do what was right.

When the war was over, he did not hurry to Jerusalem or order a purge. Rather, he worked to unite the people after Absalom’s rebellion. He sent messengers to the elders and forgave those who had supported Absalom, even making Amasa his commander in place of Joab. In this way, he won the hearts of the men of Judah. When the tables were turned, Shimei came to David, begging not to be punished for cursing David when he was fleeing from Absalom. He deserved to die, for he cursed the LORD’s anointed, but David didn’t want blood shed when it was time to bring people together. So, he promised that he would not put him to death. David did not repay him evil for evil (Ro 12:17) but trusted in God’s justice. We see in David the shadow of Jesus, who did not retaliate against those who hurled insults at him (1Pe 2:23).
Application: Lord, help me to overcome personal feelings and act in a way that pleases you.
One Word: Forgive others; be a peacemaker