This passage starts out with the plea of a father for his son to be wise and to bring him pride and joy. Young people simply follow the world. They need wisdom and guidance to avoid the pitfalls of sin and temptation that lurk everywhere. We need to teach them not to trust or try to help everyone. We should also teach them to be cautious of people who praise them too loudly, and instead, wonder what they are hiding or what is coming next.
We all need wisdom to handle conflicts. Wives should resist quarreling with their husbands and make their homes a place of peace. Also, we shouldn’t be afraid of differences between people, but know that cultural, generational, and other differences sharpen us. When we struggle with others, we can easily see what is in their hearts expressed on their faces. We need to pay attention and understand them.
Just as fire refines gold and silver, praise tests people. If we’re not on guard, we can be tricked by people’s praise and make foolish decisions. Instead, let’s rely on God's love and be stewards of what God has given us so we can be a blessing to others. Let’s reflect on how praise has affected me and ask: What can I change?
Application: Father, help me not be swayed by praise but rely on your love and be a diligent and faithful steward of what you have given me.
One Word: Pass the test of receiving praise