A common theme running through these passages is about avoiding quarrels. The temptation to argue is hard to overcome. The fall out lasts longer than we may think. Many of the verses here give us wisdom and will protect us if we just claim one of them and hold onto it by faith.

Many couples suffer from fighting in their homes (1). Many children rebel without thinking about the consequences (2). There are divisions in society and corruption in politics that create dissension. What is the solution? We can foster love or rebellion. Verse 17 says that a friend loves at all times. Brothers have no choice but to be brothers. But you choose your friends. And you decide to love your friends at all times by faith. Then, even brothers can be friends and help each other instead of fighting with each other.

Evil and corruption break bonds and destroy communities. But those who love cheerfully bring healing. Those who seek knowledge and understanding show restraint and have high emotional intelligence. They protect and preserve the unity that strengthens us all.


Application: Father, thank you for our Friend Jesus who loved us at all times. Help us to have knowledge and understanding to restrain ourselves and practice your love at all times.
One Word: A friend who loves at all times